what she did on april 22nd 2023

 

texted me on saturday, told me to bring Eleanor and Olivia to her the next day, but never mentioned either morning/noon/night or time. I had to ask and she only said morning.

planned a breakfast tomorrow so told her after breakfast. On Sunday 8:34, called and texted to bring them there now, again, she never said when exactly and we were in the middle of having breakfast.

and fast forward to today, never mentioned anything about staying for the night or when she'll be returning Eleanor and Olivia. She won't be dropping them off here but tell me to pick them up as usual

why didn't I ask? i'm tired of asking everytime and tired of being ordered around last minute. she'll just text/call me to pick them up at the last minute, and I rushed there few times...she'll just hold them there for snacks, drinks etc, ended up wasting 15-30 minutes of my time standing in front of her house.

cool example;

Imagine it this way, you're required to work but your employer never told you your shift every single time even if you asked, they'll just tell you last minute, you work NOW, or no work until tomorrow (and you'll have to ask again for tomorrow's shift)