What she did on April 27th 2023

 Texted me about picking childrens up, I was busy at work, totally unprepared due to short notice.Tried to pick both children up at 10:39AM but Eleanor refused to go with her. She picked Olivia up and that's it.

Never told me about staying over night etc. just no information...I'll just focus on my work...it's a busy day after all

what she did on april 22nd 2023

 

texted me on saturday, told me to bring Eleanor and Olivia to her the next day, but never mentioned either morning/noon/night or time. I had to ask and she only said morning.

planned a breakfast tomorrow so told her after breakfast. On Sunday 8:34, called and texted to bring them there now, again, she never said when exactly and we were in the middle of having breakfast.

and fast forward to today, never mentioned anything about staying for the night or when she'll be returning Eleanor and Olivia. She won't be dropping them off here but tell me to pick them up as usual

why didn't I ask? i'm tired of asking everytime and tired of being ordered around last minute. she'll just text/call me to pick them up at the last minute, and I rushed there few times...she'll just hold them there for snacks, drinks etc, ended up wasting 15-30 minutes of my time standing in front of her house.

cool example;

Imagine it this way, you're required to work but your employer never told you your shift every single time even if you asked, they'll just tell you last minute, you work NOW, or no work until tomorrow (and you'll have to ask again for tomorrow's shift)

What she did on April 16 2023

 

did not mention anything about staying over night with her and never told me anything until now...

I'll just pretend I don't care about when she'll be returning Olivia back to me...because I don't want to have an argument with her anymore...i'm tired...I've given up on her.

what she did on april 14 2023

 

picked olivia up at 11AM, dropped her back home 11:50AM and Olivia fell asleep.

Woke up as soon as she passed to me and kissed her goodbye.

Slept at 4PM to 5PMish

she knew Olivia would be sleeping around 11-12ish but took her out...

What she did Apr 8-9 2023

 

asked if kids are still sick and warned about 5PM as if she'd be coming for one of them and pick up (any)

she showed up at 5:08PM. Tried Eleanor and failed, so pick Olivia.

Never told me if kid will be staying over her place but she dropped the "did you bring her medications?" question suggesting staying over, again, never told me

video called Eleanor at 7:28PM, saw the background and they're at home so I told her i can only send her medicines after work.

She claimed Olivia was sleepy, but video showed her playing

Next day, I asked her when should I pick Olivia up and the only answer was "She's staying with me" answer from her, no other information was given, and no mentioning about off today or having Eleanor coming over her place etc.

attempt to use Olivia as some sort of leverage/hostage situation to get back in here and I had to refuse

video called Eleanor

blaming me and my parents all of a sudden but i get the gist of what happened during the conversation with Eleanor.