I will less like to give a punishment for kids

I noticed that everytime i punished my children...she'll eventually come to her rescue...i observed this happened almost everytime i give a simple punishment, standing still....

i'd let my children stood there as long as she can endure or until she realized her mistake(s), whichever comes first

but before any of those 2 happened, she'd come to her rescue, effectively ending the punishment and she'd be the good guy, i'll be the bad guy....

so why should i do it anymore?

here's the thing, for every bad thing the children did, she'll just tell me to give her a punishment or scolding, she won't do it or her way of doing it is ineffective against the children...

that's the solution? that's like giving up/delegation/pointing finger...just give up, let others do it, and point finger at someone else...everything becomes someone's job...

people don't change....again...never find a solution, just run away from it...and when someone else took care of it...it's done...just like that...

someone's gotta pay for that shit when it's due...

i remember she warned/threatened me when childrens are married, she'll live with them and leave me alone...i personally don't mind...and i don't give a shit ANYMORE...i'll just look at the bright side...living alone isn't bad...i can do more stuff that i couldn't do...like hanging out with my friends....say whatever i want with my friends...just because someone else has been deciding who i should befriend with and what i should/NOT say to friends...

well...i don't see any future with her....anymore...until she can regain my trust...my feeling hasn't been the same ever since i found her disrecpectful against me and my family

peace