What she did on May 19 - 24 2023

 asked where Eleanor is since it's been....6 days with her without any news, not allowing me to see/meet Eleanor. Her short day offs are over 6 days, she lied just to get her hands on Eleanor, clearly

so it's been....almost 12 o clock and she didn't respond my text, no calls made

i can guess she's preventing me see Eleanor at all cost.

She video called Olivia on May 19th and I let her talk to Olivia...but she did not let me talk to Eleanor.

What she did on May 18 2023

 

texed me last night about bringing Eleanor to her with PE uniform. I forgot her school bag, planned to drop her school bag after work.

When i dropped Eleanor off her place, her uncle is visiting her.

4PM, texted me to bring all school uniforms, she's got 2 sets of school uniforms.

My summary? Change of plan all of a sudden? I have the right to ask why because that's my daughter, but as usual, she will never tell me anything, not even a stay overnight etc or when to return Eleanor to me.

The reason why I need Eleanor and Olivia with me, She has to work and noone would look after them. Even if she quit her work, She would demand insane amount of financial support, and when I provided it to her like during Dec 2021-Jan2022, She wouldn't even do anything and keep on demanding more

and stated that I have to pay for her mother's assistance as well... During Dec21-Jan22 I was barely able to see my own daughters...she kept both to herself, whenever it's their turn to stay here, both of them would convince me to let my daughters stay there,

it's clear that when my daughters arent allowed to meet both me and my parent

What she did on May 16 2023

 

called twice, I missed it, and asked me to pick up olivia...couldn't do it with short notice. She said she couldn't drop olivia here before work

but........

https://youtu.be/IWTtuoG1Jwo

showed up to pick up the letter, while couldn't drop olivia off here...again...ordering me around like a slave as usual, why slave? that attitude of her...it's like talking to a slave or someone lower... never respected me anyway so there's that....not that i care anymore

and did this, on her own will...

What she did on May 13 2023

 called me at 9:49AM about picking kids up, but eleanor wasn't home as she went out with my parents.

she decided to pick Olivia up at 10AM and told me she's picking her stuff up as well

https://youtu.be/C2DGJlm90i8

https://youtu.be/5WXPzgjPTn0

Did not say anything about staying over there

On May 14 in the morning, I sent images of the letter addressed to her.

did not hear anything until today (may 15) and Olivia is still with her.

What she did on April 27th 2023

 Texted me about picking childrens up, I was busy at work, totally unprepared due to short notice.Tried to pick both children up at 10:39AM but Eleanor refused to go with her. She picked Olivia up and that's it.

Never told me about staying over night etc. just no information...I'll just focus on my work...it's a busy day after all

what she did on april 22nd 2023

 

texted me on saturday, told me to bring Eleanor and Olivia to her the next day, but never mentioned either morning/noon/night or time. I had to ask and she only said morning.

planned a breakfast tomorrow so told her after breakfast. On Sunday 8:34, called and texted to bring them there now, again, she never said when exactly and we were in the middle of having breakfast.

and fast forward to today, never mentioned anything about staying for the night or when she'll be returning Eleanor and Olivia. She won't be dropping them off here but tell me to pick them up as usual

why didn't I ask? i'm tired of asking everytime and tired of being ordered around last minute. she'll just text/call me to pick them up at the last minute, and I rushed there few times...she'll just hold them there for snacks, drinks etc, ended up wasting 15-30 minutes of my time standing in front of her house.

cool example;

Imagine it this way, you're required to work but your employer never told you your shift every single time even if you asked, they'll just tell you last minute, you work NOW, or no work until tomorrow (and you'll have to ask again for tomorrow's shift)

What she did on April 16 2023

 

did not mention anything about staying over night with her and never told me anything until now...

I'll just pretend I don't care about when she'll be returning Olivia back to me...because I don't want to have an argument with her anymore...i'm tired...I've given up on her.